A Mistake I See People Make Online (And a Better Way of Handling Such)

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❌ “Why isn’t my content working? I’m posting everywhere, following trends, and still… nothing.”

If that thought has ever crossed your mind, trust me—you’re not alone. I used to be in that exact same place. And even today, I see so many people online repeating the same mistake I once made: trying to be everywhere and everything to everyone.

Here’s what I mean.

When I first started creating online, I thought the key to growth was simple—spread myself out as much as possible. Instagram? Post daily. Facebook? Join every group. TikTok? Jump on every trend. LinkedIn? Share something “professional.” The more places I showed up, the faster I’d grow—or so I thought.

But what really happened? Burnout. My energy was scattered, my message got diluted, and instead of building real connections, I was just creating noise. I wasn’t standing out—I was blending in with the chaos.

And that’s the mistake I see people making over and over again. They chase every platform, every trend, every viral sound—without asking if it even aligns with their brand or message. Sure, it might get you quick views, but it rarely builds trust.

So, what’s the better way?

It’s this: clarity and consistency beat chaos every single time.

Instead of trying to be everywhere, pick where you can show up best. If your audience hangs out mostly on Instagram, focus there. If they prefer LinkedIn or YouTube, put your energy there. You don’t need to dominate every platform—you just need to be intentional and consistent where it matters most.

And here’s the real game-changer: stop relying only on trends. Start with your own story. Share your experiences, lessons, wins, and even your mistakes. People don’t connect with perfection—they connect with authenticity. When they feel like they know you, they’ll trust you. And trust is what keeps them coming back.

I had to learn this the hard way. But once I stopped trying to “be everywhere” and instead focused on showing up clearly and consistently, everything shifted. My content started to feel lighter, more natural, and more aligned with who I really am. People responded—not because I was everywhere, but because I was finally showing up authentically.

So, if you’re stuck in the endless cycle of chasing trends and stretching yourself too thin, here’s my advice: pause, refocus, and simplify. Ask yourself:

Who am I really trying to reach?

Where do they spend their time online?

What message do I want them to remember about me?


Get clear on those three things, and you’ll already be ahead of the majority still trapped in the noise.

Because the truth is: you don’t win online by being everywhere. You win by being authentic, clear, and consistent—exactly where it matters most.

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