A Mistake I See People Make Online (And a Better Way of Handling Such)

One common mistake I often see people make online (and honestly, I’ve been guilty of it too) is showing up without clarity.

You know the vibe: posting anything that comes to mind, copying whatever is trending, or just putting something out there because “I need to be consistent.”

The problem with that?
It confuses your audience. People don’t know what you stand for, what you’re good at, or how they can even connect with you. It’s like walking into a market where every seller is shouting different things overwhelming, noisy, and you’ll likely walk away.

I used to fall into this trap. At first, my posts were scattered. Some days design tips, other days random rants, sometimes nothing at all. The result? Very little engagement, no clear growth, and honestly, frustration.

But here’s the better way I discovered 👇

1️⃣ Get clear on your message
Ask yourself: What do I want to be known for? You don’t need to have it all figured out, but focus on a theme maybe design, personal growth, tech, or your career journey. That clarity makes it easier for people to remember you.

2️⃣ Provide value, not noise
Instead of posting just for posting’s sake, share something useful. It doesn’t have to be perfect it could be a lesson you learned, a quick tip, or even a mistake you made and what it taught you. People connect with that.

3️⃣ Consistency > Perfection
Don’t wait till you have the “perfect” design, caption, or idea. Just show up, but with purpose. When you show up consistently around a clear message, people start associating you with that thing and that’s how opportunities come.

So, in summary:
❌ The mistake: Posting without clarity, just to “be online.”
✅ The better way: Have a message, provide value, and show up consistently.

Your online presence is like a digital footprint. Make sure it leads somewhere intentional, not just anywhere.

Question for you: What’s one online mistake you’ve made (or seen others make) that taught you a big lesson?

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This Is Who I Am (Right Now)

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that identity is not fixed it evolves. Who I was yesterday is not exactly who I am today, and tomorrow, I’ll be a different version of myself. But today, this is who I am, right now.

My name is Bright Blessing IMUETINYANOSA, though online I’m known as The Creative Nurse. At first, those two worlds healthcare and creativity felt like opposites. One is about science, structure, and service. The other is about art, imagination, and freedom. But the more I grew, the more I realized they are not opposites. They complement each other. Nursing taught me compassion, patience, and resilience. Design gave me a voice, visibility, and the courage to create. Together, they’ve shaped the version of me you see today.

Right now, I care deeply about growth and impact. Growth, because I want to keep stretching myself mentally, professionally, and personally. Impact, because I don’t just want to live for myself; I want my work, my story, and my journey to inspire someone else. That’s why I push myself to show up online, even when I don’t feel like it. Because I know someone out there might find courage through my consistency.

And then, there’s another layer of me: being the first daughter in a Nigerian home. If you know, you know 😅. It comes with responsibility sometimes heavy, sometimes motivating. It’s not just about me; it’s about showing up so I can contribute, support, and open doors for those around me. That sense of duty became fuel, pushing me to treat every design, every post, and every opportunity as an investment into possibilities bigger than myself.

Right now, I’m balancing a lot: nursing school, design projects, family responsibilities, and personal growth. It’s not easy, but I’m learning to enjoy the process. I’ve come to embrace the fact that I’m still evolving, still figuring things out, still shaping the bigger picture. And honestly, that’s okay.

So, if you ask me who I am right now, I’d say:
💉 I’m a nurse-in-training with a heart for people.
🎨 A designer who loves turning ideas into visuals that inspire.
💁 A first daughter navigating responsibility, faith, and ambition.
🔥 And above all, a young woman hungry for growth, consistency, and impact.

Tomorrow, my story may look different. Next year, I may have evolved even more. But today, this is me and I’m learning to embrace every version of myself with gratitude and courage.

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Something I Was Afraid of That I Finally Did

For the longest time, Twitter wasn’t a platform I wanted to be on. To me, it felt like a noisy, toxic place filled with arguments, clapbacks, and public dragging. I had convinced myself that it wasn’t worth the stress, especially since I was someone who preferred to stay behind the scenes and quietly do my work.

Whenever people talked about posting on Twitter, my response was always the same: “No, that space is not for me.” Even my friends weren’t active there. We shared the same fears about the backlash and the insults people often get. For me, it was safer to just stay away than to risk being misunderstood or discouraged.

But at some point, things began to shift. I started noticing how creatives were using Twitter differently. Instead of joining the noise, they were building visibility, sharing their work, and connecting with opportunities. That was when a new thought hit me: What if I’ve been looking at this platform the wrong way?

That small shift created a strong desire in me to give Twitter a chance. I realized that if others could thrive there, maybe I could too. The fear didn’t disappear immediately, but I decided to lean into curiosity instead of fear.

The turning point came when I shared this thought with a creative friend of mine. I showed him my mapped-out plan for how I wanted to start posting consistently, and instead of laughing at my fears, he encouraged me. He reminded me that I didn’t have to face it all at once just one post at a time.

And so I started.

At first, it was uncomfortable. Hitting the “post” button made me anxious. I wondered what people would think or if anyone would even care. But as I kept going, something interesting happened: people actually responded. Not with insults, but with encouragement. They left comments, liked my posts, and even shared them. That small bit of validation gave me the push to keep showing up.

One of my biggest moments was when I reluctantly posted a design for my church’s Youth Sunday program (the one in the picture above). Truthfully, I had zero inspiration when working on it, but I pushed myself to put it out there anyway. To my surprise, that single post went viral it brought me visibility I never imagined. And beyond the numbers, it attracted paying clients, some of whom I still work with today.

Looking back, I realize that courage doesn’t mean the fear disappears it means moving forward despite the fear. What made the difference for me wasn’t just posting, but also having creative friends who understood the journey and pushed me when I wanted to hide.

Today, I’m grateful I took that step. The same platform I once avoided out of fear has now become one of the biggest sources of visibility for me. It taught me that opportunities often hide behind the things we’re most afraid of.

So here’s my encouragement to you: whatever it is you’ve been scared of posting online, showing your work, or even starting that idea take one small step. You don’t have to have it all figured out, and you don’t have to do it alone. Start small, lean on supportive friends, and keep going.

Because on the other side of fear, there’s often growth, visibility, and opportunities waiting.

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2–3 Things I Did That Helped Me Show Up More Online

If I’m being honest, showing up online wasn’t always natural for me. There were days I wanted to hide, days I doubted if anyone even cared about what I was sharing. But looking back, a few things helped me push through that fear and show up more consistently.

1. Hunger for Growth
For me, everything started with a simple desire: I wanted more. More visibility, more opportunities, more growth. I remember when I first joined a consistency challenge on Twitter it was uncomfortable at first. Writing daily posts, thinking of what to say, and putting myself out there felt strange.

But over time, I realized that consistency builds visibility. People won’t know what you can do if you stay silent. And the truth is, each post I made gave me more confidence. The hunger for growth pushed me out of my comfort zone, and that small step changed a lot for me.

2. The Nigerian Economy (and First Daughter Duties 😅)
Let’s be real Nigeria’s economy has a way of pushing you to think differently. As the first daughter, I often feel a certain level of responsibility. It’s not just about me; it’s about how I can contribute and support my family in one way or another.

That sense of responsibility became fuel. I told myself: If opportunities are online, then I need to show up online. I couldn’t afford to stay hidden. This mindset shifted how I saw posting not just as “content” but as an investment into possibilities that could open doors.

3. Accountability & Community
Another thing that helped me was being part of challenges like this Brandevo one. There’s something about knowing other people are also showing up that gives you momentum. It feels less lonely, and it reminds me that progress is easier when you don’t walk the journey alone.

So, in summary, what helped me show up online more was:
💟 A genuine hunger for growth.
💟 The pressure (and motivation) of being a first daughter in Nigeria’s economy.
💟 The push from community challenges that made me accountable.

Now, showing up doesn’t feel like a burden anymore. It feels like part of the journey.

If you’ve been struggling to show up online, I want you to know you’re not alone. Start small. One post today, another tomorrow. Before you know it, it becomes part of you.

Question for you:
What’s one thing that pushes you to show up even when you don’t feel like it?

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Why Selling Online Isn’t So Easy (At First)

Whoever said making money online is easy didn’t tell the full story.

I used to think once you had a skill, that was it money would just start flowing. But reality humbled me.

As a graphic designer, I thought finishing the hard part (learning design) meant I was ready to cash out. But then I kept hearing things like:

📌“Just having a skill isn’t enough.”

📌“You need to understand the market.”

📌“If you don’t niche down, you won’t grow.”

📌“You need to learn copywriting, cold DMs, marketing, content…”


And the list kept getting longer.

At some point I was like so when will I actually stop learning and start earning?

It honestly felt like another round of schooling, only this time it was webinars, online courses, and endless advice from gurus. Everyone had their “secret formula” for selling online, and it was overwhelming.

Then came the hardest part for me: balancing school with design.

Imagine this your friends are reading for exams, and you’re glued to your laptop trying to finish a client project. Sometimes I felt guilty. Sometimes I was scared. I asked myself, what if all this design work shows up in bad grades?

But God has been faithful. This semester, despite all the late nights and divided attention, my results came out excellent. It reminded me that while selling online is hard, grace makes the journey lighter.

So here’s the truth about why selling online isn’t so easy at first:

1. You’re not just learning a skill, you’re learning how to sell it.


2. You have to deal with self-doubt wondering if anyone will pay you.


3. You’re balancing life, school, work, or family alongside building something new.


4. The market keeps shifting, and you’re constantly adapting.



It’s a lot. And honestly, many people give up at this stage.

But here’s the part that keeps me going: every challenge is shaping me into someone more resilient, more skilled, and more prepared. I’ve come to see the struggle not as a stop sign but as part of the process.

So if you’re also in that stage where selling online feels like climbing a mountain, know this you’re not alone. Many of us are figuring it out one day at a time.

It may not be easy now, but with consistency, patience, and God’s help, it will get better.

Because behind every “successful” story you see online is someone who once thought of quitting but decided to keep going.

And that’s the path I’m on.

What about you what has been the hardest part of selling your skill online?


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