A Mistake I See People Make Online (And a Better Way of Handling Such)

Helpful Teaching

❌ “Why isn’t my content working? I’m posting everywhere, following trends, and still… nothing.”

If that thought has ever crossed your mind, trust me—you’re not alone. I used to be in that exact same place. And even today, I see so many people online repeating the same mistake I once made: trying to be everywhere and everything to everyone.

Here’s what I mean.

When I first started creating online, I thought the key to growth was simple—spread myself out as much as possible. Instagram? Post daily. Facebook? Join every group. TikTok? Jump on every trend. LinkedIn? Share something “professional.” The more places I showed up, the faster I’d grow—or so I thought.

But what really happened? Burnout. My energy was scattered, my message got diluted, and instead of building real connections, I was just creating noise. I wasn’t standing out—I was blending in with the chaos.

And that’s the mistake I see people making over and over again. They chase every platform, every trend, every viral sound—without asking if it even aligns with their brand or message. Sure, it might get you quick views, but it rarely builds trust.

So, what’s the better way?

It’s this: clarity and consistency beat chaos every single time.

Instead of trying to be everywhere, pick where you can show up best. If your audience hangs out mostly on Instagram, focus there. If they prefer LinkedIn or YouTube, put your energy there. You don’t need to dominate every platform—you just need to be intentional and consistent where it matters most.

And here’s the real game-changer: stop relying only on trends. Start with your own story. Share your experiences, lessons, wins, and even your mistakes. People don’t connect with perfection—they connect with authenticity. When they feel like they know you, they’ll trust you. And trust is what keeps them coming back.

I had to learn this the hard way. But once I stopped trying to “be everywhere” and instead focused on showing up clearly and consistently, everything shifted. My content started to feel lighter, more natural, and more aligned with who I really am. People responded—not because I was everywhere, but because I was finally showing up authentically.

So, if you’re stuck in the endless cycle of chasing trends and stretching yourself too thin, here’s my advice: pause, refocus, and simplify. Ask yourself:

Who am I really trying to reach?

Where do they spend their time online?

What message do I want them to remember about me?


Get clear on those three things, and you’ll already be ahead of the majority still trapped in the noise.

Because the truth is: you don’t win online by being everywhere. You win by being authentic, clear, and consistent—exactly where it matters most.

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This Is Who I Am (Right Now) abi

Personal Branding

If there’s one thing I’ve learned lately, it’s this: you don’t have to wait until you “arrive” to introduce yourself. Growth is messy, and that’s okay. So today, I want to re-introduce myself—not as someone who has it all figured out, but as someone showing up in the middle of becoming.

Right now, this is who I am:

I’m a creator who loves turning ideas into visuals and stories that connect. I believe in creativity with purpose—not just pretty designs, but meaningful work that speaks to people. I’m passionate about branding, technology, and the magic that happens when design and strategy come together to build something unforgettable.

I care deeply about impact. For me, branding isn’t just about logos or color palettes—it’s about experience. It’s the feeling people get when they interact with you. That belief drives everything I create, from bold brand identities to websites that feel alive and stories that make people stop scrolling and pay attention.

What am I building?
A brand that reflects who I am and what I value: creativity, growth, and authenticity. I’m building services and content that help businesses show up confidently online. My focus right now is simple:
✔ Designing visuals that make brands stand out
✔ Building functional, beautiful websites that create strong first impressions
✔ Telling stories that connect people to brands on a deeper level

But beyond skills, I’m building relationships. Because the truth is, branding isn’t just about visuals—it’s about trust. And trust is earned through consistency, honesty, and real human connection.

What do I care about most? Growth—not just mine, but yours too. I care about seeing businesses go from “just another name” to brands people love. I care about creativity that solves problems and technology that amplifies possibilities.

I won’t pretend to have it all figured out. I’m still evolving, still learning, still improving every day. But I’ve stopped waiting for perfection before showing up. Because the truth is, the best version of you doesn’t appear when everything is perfect—it starts when you show up as you are, right now.

So, if you’ve been wondering who I am, this is me: a designer, a storyteller, a brand builder in progress. Tomorrow, I’ll be even better—but today, I’m proud to be right here, doing the work, learning, and growing.

Now I’ll ask you: Who are you becoming? Because here’s what I know—your next level starts the moment you show up as you are today.

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How the Internet Changed Everything for Me”

For a long time, I felt stuck. I wanted to grow, to learn new skills, and to build something meaningful for myself. I would see people online creating amazing things—designs, businesses, even entire brands—and I thought, “Wow, they must be so lucky.” Deep down, I wished I could do the same.

But the truth? I didn’t know where to start. And honestly, I was afraid. Afraid I wasn’t smart enough. Afraid people would laugh if I tried and failed. So, I did nothing… for years.

Until one day, everything changed. I came across a simple video tutorial while scrolling online. It was about something I had always wanted to learn but thought was too complicated. Out of curiosity, I clicked. The way the instructor broke things down blew my mind. For the first time, I realized the internet wasn’t just for entertainment—it was a goldmine of knowledge.

That single video sparked something inside me. The next day, I watched another. Then another. Soon, I wasn’t just watching videos—I was taking notes, practicing, and applying what I learned. I discovered that I could learn almost anything online, at my own pace, and for free or at a low cost.

But I didn’t stop there. I picked up books related to the topics I loved. Reading gave me depth that videos alone couldn’t. Each page opened my mind to new ideas and possibilities. And the more I learned, the more confident I became.

Still, I knew knowledge alone wasn’t enough—I needed people who understood the journey. So I started joining online communities, connecting with like-minded individuals who were also learning and building. These weren’t just random friendships; they became a support system. We shared ideas, exchanged feedback, and motivated each other on tough days. Slowly, my circle changed. I surrounded myself with people who challenged me to think bigger and smarter.

Over time, something amazing happened—I didn’t just gain knowledge; I sharpened my mind. I became more confident, creative, and resourceful. And it all started with one small decision: to stop wasting time scrolling aimlessly and start using the internet as a tool for growth.

Looking back, I’m grateful for that shift. Today, I no longer feel stuck. I have skills I never imagined learning, friendships that inspire me daily, and a mind that’s constantly growing.

If you’re reading this and you’ve been wondering how to level up your life, here’s my advice:
✅ Start small. Watch that tutorial.
✅ Pick up a book.
✅ Join a community of learners.

The internet is full of opportunities waiting for you—but you have to take the first step. Trust me, it’s worth it.

Your growth is in your hands. Use what you have. Learn what you need. And build connections that will shape your future.

You don’t have to do everything at once. Just start. Because one tutorial, one book, or one new friendship could change everything for you—just like it did for me.

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Post that give me courage to keep moving

Speaking of inspiring stories, I just have to give it to Peace Tommy for this one—a belief she once held but later changed. Honestly, this made me smile 😊 because why not? The presence of God in a story always makes it more beautiful. Here’s what she shared:

For a long time, Peace believed success was all about her effort alone.
Read every book. Stay up late. Push harder. Grind nonstop—and boom, success will show up.

That was her formula.

Especially as a student, she thought the only way to pass exams or succeed at anything was by reading until her brain was full. And don’t get me wrong—hard work matters. Preparation matters. But here’s what she discovered: success is not about strength alone.

After all the sleepless nights and pressure, the results didn’t always match the effort. Sometimes, she would walk into the exam hall and forget things. Other times, she’d leave without confidence in what she wrote. Frustrating, right?

Then something changed. Peace started leaning less on herself and more on God. And everything shifted. Exams no longer felt like a battlefield. She walked in with calm confidence—not because she didn’t prepare, but because she knew she wasn’t doing it alone.

That realization changed everything.

Now, she sees success as a partnership:
✅ Her effort — showing up, studying, practicing her craft, doing her part.
✅ God’s grace — providing wisdom, peace, and favor to make it all work.

It’s the difference between struggling in your own strength and walking with an unshakable backup you can trust.

And here’s what really stood out for me—and why I’m sharing this with you:

✨ Don’t get tired or discouraged because of a challenging situation.
✨ Don’t be hard on yourself or think less of yourself because of what you’re facing right now.
✨ Remember this: the situation came to pass, not to stay.
✨ Don’t give the negative power by dwelling on it with your thoughts or words.
✨ You are bigger than any challenge. Give yourself some grace.

Show yourself compassion and love. And above all, trust God’s hand in your process.

Your effort matters—but effort alone isn’t everything. Hustle has its place, but peace, grace, and trust in God take you further.

So keep your faith alive every single day, even when it’s tough—that’s an accomplishment in itself.

Just like a tea bag releases flavor when placed in hot water, let life’s heat bring out your best. Infuse your world with hope, grace, and positivity.

Don’t let the challenge break you; let it shape you. Don’t let it silence you; let it strengthen your voice.

Because real success isn’t about hustle alone—it’s about hard work plus God’s hand on it.
And that, my friend, is what makes all the difference. 🙌


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