Your tone of communication as a leader is just as important as the message you carry.

I know there are times when you want to "say it as it is," but you must also understand that words don’t just inform—they shape lives, build or break spirits, and leave lasting imprints on the hearts of those who hear them.

I remember an encounter I had with a young lady some time ago. She had a health condition that made her dependent on others for simple daily activities—walking, bathing, and even eating. She was already struggling emotionally, searching for answers, and in her desperation, she turned to a religious leader for counsel.

Out of what seemed like sympathy and a desire to lead her to Christ, this man made a statement that deeply wounded her:

In his voice, she repeated his words to me, "Sister, just look at you. You rely on others to do everything. You're beautiful, but no man will be proud to take you home. It's just like being useless. So, you need to be serious with God."

Those words shattered her. It was as if he had placed a seal on the very lies the enemy had been whispering in her ears. He probably meant those words to guide her toward God, to help her see hope… but instead, the way he said them became a stamp of approval.

From that day on, she stopped trying. She believed she was worthless, so she started living recklessly. If she was already seen as "useless," what was the point of trying to be anything else?

This true-life story taught me a profound lesson:

You can have the best intentions as a leader, but if you lack the skill to communicate with wisdom and compassion, your words can do more harm than good.

Leadership isn’t just about having a message; it’s about how you deliver it.

That’s why effective communication is a skill every leader who desires greatness must master.

April is Here—An Opportunity to Grow

This month, take a step toward becoming a leader who speaks with impact, influence, and wisdom.

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Christianah Omoniyi